Pifactory:
Found a couple of links relating to housing. Not sure how much they help, but here they are, if you want them.
http://portal.hud.gov/hudportal/HUD?src=/i_want_to/talk_to_a_housing_counselor
http://www.needhelppayingbills.com/html/oklahoma_assistance_programs.html
http://www.rentassistance.us/li/2705_oklahoma-department-of-commerce-ok-state-program
Have you been working with a housing counselor to figure out the HUD house at all? Talking to one about these fears might be an idea to consider. At the very least, they might be able to point you toward some more resources, or help you work something out, or something like that.
As for your roommate, I don’t really know. The only non-local thing I know of that can be accessed from home other than finding an online support group is the phone hotline, but that doesn’t really help much in this case I think?
God, I don’t know. I wish I could do more to help, or at least be there to give you a real hug :C
You’re a godsend. I’m already approved for HUD, but there’s a lot of stuff here i can use, like that medication program. Reblogging in case others could use it, too.
Pi, thank you so much! <333